"Unfiliality has three, no later for the big" the older generation of feudalism is y rooted. They believe that what kind of age should do what things, to the age of marriage must be married. In fact, from childhood to adulthood, we have been arranged by our parents to lead a life. When we were young, our parents always taught us to study hard and not to fall in love, and this one lasted until we graduated from college, and finally when we got to work, they would start to give us a blind date to let us get married, and they wanted to arrange us all our lives, not knowing that at this time, we had already become independent early, and if we didn't want to get married, they would rush us to get married, and the meeting was just for us to get matched up with each other, and there was a complete lack of Loved ones care and concern, so many unmarried is depression and boredom.
These are also because the parents are too bored to find solace. In the child's career success, parents are mostly at home to enjoy their old age, nothing to do when they are out of the square dance, and neighbors play mahjong, then at home they will certainly urge the marriage, after all, the child's lifelong matters they need to think about, they also want to hold the grandchildren it, this is the common old man's thinking, but also very difficult to wear off.
People who push for marriage are sometimes a kind of bragging and mocking attitude. Take my hometown for example, I was born in the countryside, in the countryside, many boys in their twenties have been married, and some even twenty-seven or eighty-eight have not been married, those who have not been married will always be urged by the neighbors to get married, and the neighbors' words inside the meaning of the secret mockery, for example, some people will be disgusted with you have not yet been married, that you are a bachelor, and so on, and all of these are there, which is a bad social climate.
Nowadays, parents should be more sympathetic to the children, they like to do what let them do what, do not go to the children's pressure, pressure can sometimes become counterproductive, the children's things parents to give a little advice on the good, do not go to the dictatorship.